Thursday, August 28, 2008

How to Find Time for New Habits



 
 

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"I'm too busy to exercise."

Even if it were true, it isn't a reasonable excuse. Exercise gives you more energy to do work. In many ways, most people are too busy not to exercise. But still, a lot of people feel they don't have time for starting new habits like exercise, reading or doing extra work. Being able to find time is a big obstacle in starting new habits.

I'd like to make two arguments. These are generalizations, so while they may not be true in specific cases, I'd say they apply to most people, most of the time.

  1. Time is never the most limited resource in your day.
  2. A lack of attention, not time, is what prevents you from adding new habits.

You Have Enough Time

Even when you're extremely busy, you aren't using your time with 100% efficiency. There are gaps in everyone's schedule where they aren't doing anything important. Even if your schedule has no gaps, there are probably chunks of time where you aren't working as fast or as effectively as you possibly could.

Why aren't you completely efficient? It's because time isn't the limiting factor. If it were the limiting factor, people could work non-stop without breaks or any unproductive distractions. Instead people, even those who are highly productive, need to take breaks, occasionally procrastinate and slow down on tasks throughout the day.

The real limiting factor for productivity is your energy levels and ability to pay attention. Energy levels limit your productivity because when you're tired, you can have ample time and still not get everything done. Your attention span is even more limited, because even if there are a million things that need to be done, you can only focus on one or two at a time.

You might not be able to insert another 4-5 hours into your schedule without making some sacrifices. But even extremely busy people can add an hour or two into their schedule without eliminating something. The reason it's hard to "find time" isn't a lack of time. It's because you don't have the attention span left to focus on something else that needs to fit into your day.

I first suspected time wasn't the real problem during an extremely busy period in my life over a year ago. I was insanely busy, but at this time I still exercised regularly. I had daily to-do lists with over twenty items, and I still found time to exercise.

However, after a few weeks off, due to illness, I stopped exercising. I was not busy by any standards, in fact, my schedule was incredibly light. Despite this free time, I found it hard to find time to exercise. It seemed to get pushed later and later into my schedule until it was gone. How could I explain this odd experience?

Paying Attention is Expensive

Some studies estimate that there are close to eleven thousand sensory inputs into your brain during any second, but you only process around forty consciously. This means out of everything you could be thinking about, you are reduced to examining less than one percent.

Even when you do think, you're handicapped. Your short-term memory, or active memory, can only hold about 7 items at a time (why do you think phone numbers are typically 7 digits long?). Your attention is extremely limited, and given the amount of things you do each day, paying attention is very expensive.

I believe this lack of attention is the main culprit in finding time for new habits. You may have very little time, but you have even less attention. Even if you could find an hour or two to spare for exercising, reading or a new activity, it's mentally costly to keep reminding yourself to do it. New habits have a start-up cost that you pay with attention.

Finding Time for New Habits

There isn't much you can do to free up more attention. But you can be smart in your usage of it. Forming a habit makes continuing much easier because, after several weeks, you stop thinking about it. My exercise during the busy period in my life was easy because it no longer required thought. When I stopped for a few weeks, I suddenly needed reminders, which made finding time more difficult.

You can reduce the attention needed to start a new habit by writing it down. Write it into your to-do lists, and place it on Post Its around your house. If you allow the environment to remind you of your habit, you can cut down on the amount of internal attention you need to use to remember it.

The best way to find time is to focus on it. If you can focus on a new habit for a few weeks, you can find the attention to make it a habit. Once exercise, reading, studying or whatever you want to do becomes a habit, it won't cost you anything to keep going. Attention is the currency of productivity, so if you want to find time for anything, find the energy to pay attention first.

Originally posted at PickTheBrain a weblog dedicated to self improvement and motivation.


 
 

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Wednesday, August 27, 2008

10 Articles on Working from Home



 
 

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via Productivity501 by Anna on 8/26/08

  • High-Paying Work-from-Home Jobs-AOL
    This article describes several different ways that a person can work from home and still earn a good salary. The list includes many different options from several areas requiring various skills. Some of the job suggestions include running a travel agency, Medical claims processing, graphics design, property managing etc.
  • Going Green by Working from Home-Sun
    It is interesting how gas prices and other environmental factors have inadvertently encouraged many companies to "go green". Sun has made it an option for some of their employees to work from home about 2 days per week. This small change has allowed employees to save approx. $1,700 in gas costs and much wear and tear on their cars and tires. These small changes to employees' work locations has not only benefited the employees themselves, but also the environment.
  • Why Working from Home May Not Work for You Either-Kristina Summers
    In this article, the author explains that, though working from home might be a viable option for some people, it could turn out to be unprofitable for some. The rise in gas costs has made a big difference in the way many Americans think about commuting to work every day. However, there are certain factors that may make working from home difficult for some individuals.
  • Polk Court Employees Could Soon Work from Home-Fox News
    Developments in communications technology have come a long way since years past. Because fuel prices have risen dramatically in the past few years as well, the county officials of Polk County are now setting up a system that allows Polk County Courthouse employees to telecommute to their jobs.
  • Will You Make Money from a Work At Home Business-Rosie Cottis
    This article offers some advice to help a work-at-home business succeed. The author points out that some home businesses fail because the owners are deceived by get-rich-quick schemes, and to avoid offers that sound too good to be true. The author also recommends designing a business system that is tailored to your own talents and preferences.
  • How Green is Home Working?-The Green It Review
    In this article, the author examines the claims by Sun Corporation that its work-at-home program is environmentally helpful. Although Sun's employees that commuted every day do benefit from using less gasoline, the author mentions that heating and air conditioning costs are not mentioned in the description of how the program aids in saving the environment.
  • Save Money-Work from Home-But Be Ready for Mobile Challenges-Calahan Solutions
    In this article, the author talks about the psychological and organizational requirements that a work-at-home job requires of a person. Because the way they dress affects the performance and productivity level of some people, the author recommends that a person dress in jeans or slack instead of PJ's for a day of work from a home office.
  • How to Work from Home-Simply Stated
    This article highlights the important measures needed for a person to successfully work from a home office. The author specifies some different techniques that can be used to keep your "home" life from interfering with your "work" life. Some of these suggestions include using a work space that is set separated from the rest of the house with a door, keeping the television in a separate room, and to make yourself presentable even though you are still at home.
  • Working from Home-Student/Doctor Forums
    Sometimes working from home sounds so good that we forget how much planning and organization goes into the process of setting up a successful work environment from a one's own home. Though the convenience of location is wonderful, there are certain measures that must be taken to ensure that a person's workspace remains distraction-free and that the technical requirements for telecommuting are in place and functioning as they should.
  • Working at Home-Julie Richman
    In this article, the author relates her own experiences from working at home. She emphasizes the need to actively separate a person's work space from the rest of the home, as well as creating a certain system and schedule to keep work getting completed on a timely basis, much like what would be required for a traditional job.

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"The gratification of desire is not happiness. If it were, as Socrates noted, a person who spends his life scratching an itch would have to be considered happy. Genuine happiness can only be achieved when we transform our way of life from the unthinking pursuit of pleasure to one committed to enriching our inner lives, when we focus on "being more" rather than simply having more." - Daisaku Ikeda


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Want To Improve Your Life? Tell A Whopper!



 
 

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We all know it's not nice to lie. And most of us realize that, aside from the little white lies that get lumped under the innocuous (and incredibly flexible) heading of "social lubrication," lying can be both negative and highly destructive.

But what about exaggeration? The average person would probably lump exaggeration in with lying, although most of us consider it more along the lines of a harmless and annoying fib than serious deceit. But that mindset may just need a bit of tweaking. In fact, a recent study shows that exaggeration, far from being either negative or destructive, may in fact be a vital part of our self-improvement.

According to psychology experts, lying causes stress and significant mental tension. People who are lying, and who have a vested interest in getting away with those lies, tense up when they lie, because trying to remember a lie and make it sound believable takes a lot of energy. But when people exaggerate, not only don't they tense up, they seem more at ease when discussing those exaggerations than if they were talking about the truth.

This effect was discovered during recent study, published in the journal Emotion, which showed that students who exaggerated their grade point averages did not show the same levels of stress and tension when talking about their grades as they would have if they were lying about something, even when interviewers accessed the students' actual grades with their permission. In fact, they were calmer than students who had reported their grades accurately. "It was a robust effect, the sort of readings you see when people are engaged in a positive social encounter, or when they're meditating," says Wendy Berry Mendes, senior author of the study.

What's even stranger is that, upon follow up, researchers found that students who had exaggerated their grades later improved those grades - often by exactly the amount they had exaggerated them in the study.

So what's going on? According to the experts, exaggeration isn't lying so much as it is, "… an exercise in projecting the self toward one's goals," as Dr. Richard H. Gramzow puts it, in a recent NYT article (http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/06/health/06mind.html?ref=science). We exaggerate not to get away with something, but to rehearse realities we'd like to create. And in doing so, we sometimes actually manage to make those exaggerated predictions come true.

In fact, it seems that exaggeration is a built-in mechanism for the ever popular "fake it 'til you make it" routine. We yearn for something so bad that we start acting, and talking, like it's already true. But over time, wishing it were so (and the cognitive dissonance of it not being so) can lead us to making those dreams a reality. "Basically, exaggeration here reflects positive goals for the future, and we have found that those goals tend to be realized," says Gramzow.

So the next time someone comes up to you and starts to tell you a fish tale of epic proportions, relax. Instead of becoming annoyed at their confabulation, look below the surface at what those exaggerations say about their hopes, dreams and desires. Who knows, you may just be getting a glimpse of their future.

This article was written by David B. Bohl - Husband, Father, Friend, Lifestyle Coach, Author, Entrepreneur, and creator of Slow Down FAST. For more info visit his blog at Slow Down Fast blog.

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Monday, August 25, 2008

‘The Cost of Silence’ - now it’s the BLACK WOMAN’S fault that White Feminist...



 
 

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From The Root.com:

The Cost of Silence
By Corinne Douglas and Jacquelyn Gray | TheRoot.com
Black women's attacks on white feminists during the primaries may be coming back to bite Michelle Obama.

Aug. 25, 2008–Tonight is Michelle Obama's night at the Democratic Convention. She will reintroduce herself to America, try to convince us that she and her family, especially her husband, are just like us and worthy of our support.

Expect her to be phenomenal. Expect her to be attacked, as well.

Republicans and their surrogates have already tried to diminish the achievements of the Obamas and to mute their widespread appeal by portraying Michelle Obama as an angry black woman. She has been caricatured, and she has been mocked. But the angry, fearful reactions that Ms. Obama's depiction has stirred up in men were not that different from those generated by Hillary Clinton during the 1992 and 2008 primary election seasons. And the recent failure among so many African-American women to stand up for Clinton—regardless of how they intended to vote in the primaries—gave many male political commentators tacit permission to do the same thing to Ms. Obama.

The misogynistic savaging of Hillary Clinton was one of the most inexcusable elements of the primary campaign, and the silence from black women in the face of those attacks, because they supported Obama, was, at least, a tactical mistake. It is entirely unacceptable to go along with unfair attacks against women simply because you disagree with the particular woman under attack.

Well, you do understand why I stopped quoting this article.

Let me get this straight.

When Michelle Obama is unfairly attacked, and White Feminists refuse to stand up for her, it's the Black Woman's fault because they didn't defend Hillary Clinton?

G-T-F-O-H

Black women were too busy, Ms. Douglas and Ms. Gray….

Too busy trying to keep up with the RACEBAITING that came DIRECTLY from Camp Clinton. We didn't even have to go to the MEDIA to create the ClintonAttacksObama Wiki and its 50 Incidents. Hillary Clinton and her surrogates kept us quite busy.

Why didn't I say anything about the ' sexism' surrounding Hillpatine?

Well, not only because I was sitting there, fuming at the Racial Dogwhistles coming from Camp Hillpatine…
But, I also got the message loud and clear from White feminists. I'm shocked that you didn't hear it:

Miss Anne Aint Studdin' About Your Black Behind

From Gloria Steinem to Geraldine Ferraro, I was told loud and clear, that all I was good for was to sit in the back of the female bus. That you two can so profoundly overlook the obvious racebaiting that happened with Obama from the CAMPAIGN AND SURROGATES - not the Media. If we counted the media, I don't even know how many incidents would be in the Wiki.

I'm very clear about who I am as a Black Woman.

I'm a BLACK woman. I know that my fortunes are tied to the Black men in my life: My father, uncles, nephews, future husband and possible sons. I know that I'll not be divorced from them. So, when the Racial Dogwhistle was blown, I knew where I stood. I make no apologies for not keeping any pretense of 'Sisterhood'.

I've challenged others, and I'll challenge you. Make up your own ObamaAttacksClinton Wiki based up on all these ' sexism' charges that I hear bandied about. But, here's the catch: you must only include Camp Obama and their surrogates. Get me 10 incidents. I'm not even asking for 50. Just 10. The media doesn't count.

I won't hold my breath.

Maybe I'm just a wee bit suspicious at the ' timing' of this article. Why now? Part of the Hillpatine Bitching and Grievance Committee to make trouble in Denver, IMO.

Well, I care as much about the ' sexism' pushed towards Hillpatine as you obviously did about the blatant and recorded Dogwhistle Racial remarks towards Senator Obama.

You don't worry about Michelle Obama. There are plenty of us out here, willing to defend her. Thank goodness we didn't wait on the White Feminist Establishment. They can stay wherever the hell they've been while Michelle Obama has been under attack.

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Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Dale Carnegie’s Thoughts on Freedom and Happiness



 
 

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dale carnegieWhen we were kids, anything was possible. The wide world lay open and we saw the future as a great adventure. We could do anything. I believe that all life should be an adventure, and that happiness is our natural, default state of being. But clearly we have allowed things to get in the way of our happiness and freedom. As we have traveled through the landscape of our lives, we have encountered many challenges and, sadly, we have allowed some of them to get in our way.

Dale Carnegie is one of my favorite authors. He, more than most of us, knew how treacherous the journey could be, and he provided us with some wonderful guidelines for traversing the territory. Here are some of the traps about which he warns us in his own words. These traps can rob our happiness and our freedom if we let them.

Circumstances

"It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about."

As he was suffering unimaginable privation in a Nazi death camp, the psychiatrist and neurologist Viktor Frankl made the discovery that it isn't the outside world that makes you happy or not; it's what is in your own head. Frankl's insight, which he writes about in Man's Search for Meaning, is that we are responsible for our experience of life. From Buddha, who said, 'we are what we think', to Earl Nightingale who, in 'The Strangest Secret' tells us that 'you become what you think about', countless great writers and thinkers have echoed the same theme. You are pulling your own strings; so don't give away your power to anyone or anything else.

Criticism

"Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain - and most fools do."

People will often criticize you for getting things wrong or for making mistakes. I used to take these criticisms very seriously and I would berate myself a great deal. But when I truly accepted the fact that I am imperfect and that, like everyone else on the planet, I make mistakes (all the time!), my own life was transformed. I became more confident, took more risks and, above all, worried a great deal less.

Now, when someone accuses me of getting something wrong, I will usually say (at least to myself), 'Yes, sure, I screwed up. I am human and I am imperfect. I forget things, I am inconsistent, I get the timing wrong. But you know what? That's OK. You're allowed to do all that.' And I also remember that whoever is pointing the finger is pointing three fingers back at themselves.

Of course, we must reflect upon and learn from our mistakes – to keep making the same mistake over and over again is not a good thing – but to accept our fallibility and forgive ourselves is a vital part of being happy and successful. To pay too much attention to our detractors (and the more we achieve, the more detractors we will have, you can be sure of that) is, once again, to give away our own power.

Fear

"Do the thing you fear to do and keep on doing it… that is the quickest and surest way ever yet discovered to conquer fear"

Like many people, I used to be terrified of public speaking. My heart would pound, my mouth would be dry, my hands would be trembling and my skin moist. I don't think anyone could experience greater terror than I felt when I had to talk to groups of people. I would rather have confronted a hungry lion than given a five-minute speech. But I found myself in a job where I had to speak to groups of people on a regular basis. It was a job I liked and wanted to keep, and the public speaking part simply could not be avoided. So I did it. And it was awful. Truly, truly awful. But I kept on doing it and, although there have been ups and downs, I am now a pretty confident public speaker. In fact, many people have, over the last couple of years, made a point of complimenting me on my public speaking, especially mentioning my poise and the content of my speeches.

I am not telling you this to brag about my achievement (though I am proud of it), but to illustrate the point that fear is ephemeral – it can be dissipated. But the only way to do this is to face it down. You can go through life in fear, or you can overcome it.

We all know that, in the end, none of what we do actually matters. In a hundred years we'll all be dead and buried. In a thousand years nobody will remember us. In a million years the human race probably won't exist. So we must seize the day, while there is still day! Don't let fear take your power. Face it down; do what you fear and you will transform your life. I have seen this for myself.

Dreaming

"One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today."

Without dreams, life is nothing. It is a great tragedy that so many of us allow life to crush our dreams. There was a time when we dreamed of great and fantastic things – it was that time when everything was possible, when the world was our oyster. Yet dreams must guide us somewhere. A dream can be a compass and can, if followed persistently, bring great success and happiness.

Yet to become caught up in dreams is to get lost in a mirage. Today we prepare for tomorrow, and our actions and thoughts of today shape the future, but to live in that future is not an option if we want to be happy. If we get used to living in the magical rose garden of which Carnegie speaks, then when we finally get there, we shall not recognize it and we will not enjoy our reward.

As we travel through the rich and complex terrain of our own experience, we only have ourselves to thank, or to blame, for our level of happiness and freedom. We are, in a sense, alone. But let's take heart – we can lean on the wisdom of others that have been before us and let them be our guides. I recommend you consider carefully the words of Dale Carnegie.

Michael Miles runs a blog at http://effortlessAbundance.com/blog, where you can download his new book 'Thirty Days to Change Your Life.'

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Monday, August 18, 2008

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T.D. Jakes: Let's Stay Together
In his new book, Before You Do, Bishop T.D. Jakes helps Black men and women find mates with whom they can go the distance
By Demetria L. Lucas

T.D. Jakes

In between tears of joy, you'll squeak out a yes! if the man you love ever proposes. But put your happily-ever-after fantasies on pause until you consider these sobering truths from the Center for Marriage and Families: About 45 percent of marriages fall apart. And the rates of divorce and separation for Blacks have risen during the last several decades. "We date who a person appears to be, but we marry who they are," says Bishop T.D. Jakes, pastor of The Potter's House and author of the relationship self-help book Before You Do (Atria). These are the minister's best tips for getting to know your boo before he mentions jumping the broom:

Prepare for a Lifetime
"People don't think about whether the person they are dating has the tenacity to withstand losing the house or a child getting cancer," explains Jakes. Romantic? Maybe not, but it's essential to consider. To ascertain if your guy has what it takes, Jakes advises you to pay attention to how he treats people, such as waitresses and cab drivers, in difficult situations. Notice, too, how committed he is to keeping his word. These observations will offer you the clearest sense of his character.

Do Your Research
You don't have to check on your beau at ZabaSearch.com, but you should know as much about him as possible. "You can end up in bed with a stranger, even though you have rings that match," observes the bishop. Before You Do has 20 essential questions you must ask your mate before making a serious commitment. They include "Do you know your HIV status?" and "What is your debt-to-income ratio?" Says Jakes, "If you are careful about who you invest time in and do the background work, a lot of relationship mistakes can be avoided."

Give up on Perfection
There is no such thing as a problem-free marriage or a perfect person. "The best you can hope for is that someone is 80 percent of what you're looking for," adds Jakes. "You can find pretty close or almost, but you're not going to find Mr. Right." In his book, Jakes suggests that instead of searching for an ideal who doesn't exist, women should invest in a man who complements them. For instance, if you live to shop but he's good with budgeting, he's a man who can help you prepare for your financial future. Love him—and his flaws.

Do Set Ground Rules
To make the most of your partnership, establish five to ten parameters for each other that the two of you are forced to respect. These boundaries will vary by couple, but could include asking your partner to consult with you on all financial decisions or never use something you've told him in confidence against you in an argument. "You need to go into marriage understanding that your spouse is not perfect. And you must be willing to roll up your sleeves and make the relationship work," says Jakes. "To get to 20 or 50 years, you have to take the bitter with the sweet."

For more tips on love from Bishop T.D. Jakes, check out the September 2008 issue of ESSENCE now on sale.

Friday, August 15, 2008

My girl Carla getting her Condi on

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The Deciders' Carla Euphrates Kelly gets her Condi "on" with the help of our "go-to" Decider Dustin Cross. Dustin already plays multiple roles, choreographs a dance sequence and came to the rescue styling the "Condi-wave." His blog is coming soon revealing the secrets. We already know about her shoe obsession, but the hair has ignited controversy. Our Secretary of State hairstyle has inspired countless posts in the blogosphere. From condishair.blogspot.com to blaming the politico for caring more about her "do" than the country.

 

As Carla prepares for her close-up, she channels these thoughts of the "Decider."

Okay I have a confession to make.

I'm clean as a whistle. I have never done anything stupid in my entire life. I'm just that good. People watch me and wonder what's going on with my cooler than thou demeanor. I wish I could tell them how I do it. It shouldn't be such a surprise to see me playing amongst the Bushes if you knew my history. Those are my people. I've known that family on levels that most people would kill to understand. George. Sigh…Look ladies and gentlemen, I'm doing the best with what I have. And I have a lot of things going on in this mind. Like how can I change the world…I mean how can we truly create Liberty for the many people who crave to experience the greatness of this Nation.

What an opportunity we have right now. If we play our cards right, the political landscape could change for the next hundred years to come. That's what makes me turn my head. That and Fashion Week in the Soviet Union…that's gonna always be it's name in my head. Even reading USSR or the names of those little gems that made her big and beautiful - I still see what I see. I know what I know. That's because I've really been paying attention all this time. My Grandpa made sure he paid for me to get the full attention I needed. I love that man, and I know I've made him proud.

Now I have to be on Air Force One at about Zero O'Clock in the morning. We never miss the Friday Family Football Challenge. I miss golf though…but hey, you gotta pay your respects, right?

Thanks for giving me a minute to share. There's been a lot going on lately…I even popped up on Huffington Post! What was I doing there? Seriously. Last time was great! I got voted a Style Maven. Now that's what I like to see. I will however, leave a tip for the ladies…you don't hit the cover of Vogue magazine at 51 years old by getting pissed off. Everything's gonna be fine. We have a plan. Deciding the fate of a country like this is never about knee jerk reactions…take it in. Breathe on it, be cool.

What makes me happy? Shoes. Definitely shoes…and this job. It doesn't feel like I'm working a day in my life.

As always,

Condoleeza Rice Secretary of State, at your service.

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Bounce Back From These 3 Causes of Laziness



 
 

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Everyone can get into a rut. What starts as one day where you don't get much done, can turn into a week or two. Avoiding these streaks of laziness is the best solution, but what can you do when you're stuck?

Getting Unstuck

The best way to get unstuck is to figure out how you got stuck in the first place. If you drive your car into a snowbank, the best way to get out is to get outside and look at the problem. But despite this suggestion, the first reaction is often to step on the gas, wasting more energy as you get even more stuck.

There are many ways you can get yourself into a streak of laziness. But I've found there are three big culprits that often cause you to get stuck, even though most people only blame one of them.

#1 - Low Energy

A common source of laziness is simply being drained. This is a silent cause of getting stuck, because human's aren't equipped with a fuel gauge. Until you've been running on empty for miles, it's often hard to see that your procrastination is caused by a lack of fuel.

Whenever I've been stuck for more than a few days in a row, there are a few questions I try to ask myself to see whether a lack of energy is the problem:

  • Have my eating or exercising habits changed in the last month? Even small changes can lead to an impact in your energy levels that you might not notice immediately.
  • Have my sleeping patterns changed in the last month? Fewer hours of sleep or lower quality sleep can mean you start each day with less energy.
  • Have other areas of my life added extra stress? Unfortunately, you're only drawing fuel out of one tank, so if one area of your life is siphoning it away, you won't have much left.

The solution to a low energy crisis is to fix whatever is the source of the drain. This isn't always easy to do, but sometimes it is necessary. If you're not getting enough sleep, you might need to set that as a priority before you try to drive out of your slump.

#2 - Forgotten Motivation

Why are you doing this again? Every project usually begins with inspiration. However, if you're working the same tasks for months, some of the initial motivation for starting might be gone. Your big plans get replaced with smaller frustrations and it can be hard to find the motivation to keep going.

If there were good reasons to get started, there are probably good reasons to continue. Spending time to go through those reasons again can help you bring back your past motivation. If you've been stuck for more than a few days, this is a step that can't be easily washed over. I'd suggest spending at least an hour or two going through your plans, long-term vision and initial motivation before you try to get unstuck.

Sometimes, however you'll try to retrace your initial motivation and realize it's not there. In this case, you stumble onto the third culprit for a slump.

#3 - It's Not Worth It

You don't like the work. You can't see a long-term vision from the work. You can't find a reason to be productive. This is a genuine reason to be in a slump. While a lack of energy or motivation can be a temporary road block, when you face this challenge, you truly are stuck.

When you reach this point, I think there are only two choices you can make in order to get unstuck:

  1. Quit.
  2. Keep going, but design your exit strategy.

The first solution is just to quit right there. I've done this before on project where the motivating reasons to continue couldn't be found again. I've also done this with jobs that I had no motivating reasons to get started in the first place. Quitting isn't a dishonorable move when staying means you're draining your life away.

Unfortunately, quitting may not be so easy. Even if you can't find an inspiring long-term vision connected to the work, you might be attached for short-term reasons. When this happens, many people try to ignore the long-term desert staying affords them and grudgingly accept what needs to be done.

I don't think ignoring is an option. If you ignore your slump will only get worse. It may even get worse to the point that you can't even continue your work for short-term reasons.

I think the only acceptable third-alternative is to continue for the short-term, but plan an exit strategy. If you're in a career you don't like, this might mean something drastic like getting new training on the side. If your crisis is smaller, it might mean finishing a project that drains you by planning a better project on the side.

If you can fit your current situation into your long-term vision via an exit strategy, you have a chance to get out of your slump. When I needed to take work I didn't enjoy before I could support myself through a small business, I used my exit strategy as a means of motivating myself throughout the unenjoyable work.

I've listed the three major culprits of a slump in this order, because I think they are the order you need to check. Not every slump is a crisis that means you hate your work. It can be, but I've found being drained or temporarily losing your motivation can be equal enemies in a slump.

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Originally posted at PickTheBrain a weblog dedicated to self improvement and motivation.


 
 

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